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  Bereavement Poems

 

In this section we have a number of poems. We hope that they provide you with some inspiration and some solace. Please do not hesitate to contact us to recommend any other poems or readings that you have found helpful or comforting to you.

Thank you.

 

Don't Tell Me.......

Don't tell me that you understand,

Don't tell me that you know,

Don't tell me that I'll survive,

That I will surely grow.

Don't come at me with answers

that can only come from me.

Don't tell me that my grief will pass,

that I will soon be free.

Accept me in my ups and downs,

I need someone to share,

Just hold my hand and let me cry, and say

         " My Friend, I care "  

 

 

Book of Ecclesiastes - A Time For Everything

 

To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
a time to be born, and a time to die;
a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
a time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
a time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
a time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.
What profit hath he that worketh in that wherein he laboreth?
I have seen the travail, which God hath given to the sons of men to be exercised in it. He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end.
I know that there is no good in them, but for a man to rejoice, and to do good in his life. And also that every man should eat and drink, and enjoy the good of all his labor, it is the gift of God. I know that, whatsoever God doeth, it shall be for ever: nothing can be put to it, nor any thing taken from it: and God doeth it, that men should fear before him.
That which hath been is now; and that which is to be hath already been; and God requireth that which is past.

         The Bible, King James Version

 

 

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        Remember

Remember me when I am gone away, 
Gone far away into the silent land; 
When you can go no more hold me by the hand, 
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day 
You tell me of our future that you planned:
Only remember me; you understand 
It will be late to counsel then or pray. 
Yet if you should forget me for a while 
And afterwards remember, do not grieve: 
For if the darkness and corruption leave 
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had, 
Better by far you should forget and smile 
Than that you should remember and be sad.

            Christina Rossetti

 
 
 

 

 

 

 

 Look for me in Rainbows

Time for me to go now, I won't say goodbye;
Look for me in rainbows, way up in the sky.
In the morning sunrise when all the world is new,
Just look for me and love me, as you know I loved you.

Time for me to leave you, I won't say goodbye;
Look for me in rainbows, high up in the sky.
In the evening sunset, when all the world is through,
Just look for me and love me, and I'll be close to you.

It won't be forever, the day will come and then
My loving arms will hold you, when we meet again.

Time for us to part now, we won't say goodbye;
Look for me in rainbows, shining in the sky.
Every waking moment, and all your whole life through
Just look for me and love me, as you know I loved you.

Just wish me to be near you,
And I'll be there with you.

                 Music and lyrics:

    Conn Bernard (1990).Vicki Brown

 

 

 

Don’t Cry for me

Don't cry for me now I have died, for I'm still here I'm by your side,
My body's gone but my soul's is here, please don't shed another tear,
I am still here I'm all around, only my body lies in the ground.
I am the snowflake that kisses your nose,
I am the frost, that nips your toes.
I am the sun ,bringing you light,
I am the star, shining so bright.
I am the rain, refreshing the earth,
I am the laughter, I am the mirth.
I am the bird, up in the sky,
I am the cloud, that's drifting by.
I am the thoughts, inside your head,
While I'm still there, I can't be dead.

       Author unknown.

 

 

   Do Not Stand At

  My Grave & Weep

 

    Do not stand at my grave and weep,
     I am not there, I do not sleep. 
     I am a thousand winds that blow. 
     I am the diamond glint on snow. 
     I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
     I am the gentle autumn rain. 
    When you wake in the morning hush, 
     I am the swift, uplifting rush 
    Of quiet birds in circling flight. 
     I am the soft starlight at night. 
     Do not stand at my grave and weep. 
     I am not there, I do not sleep. 
     Do not stand at my grave and cry.
     I am not there, I did not die!

             Mary Frye (1932)

 
 
 
 
 
 

                I'm Free

Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free, I'm following the path God laid for me. 
I took his hand when I heard his call, I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day, To laugh, to love, to work, to play. 
Tasks left undone must stay that way, I've found that peace at the end of the day. 
If my parting has left a void, Then fill it with remembered joy. 
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss, Ah, yes, these things too I will miss. 
Be not burdened with times of sorrow, I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow. 
My Life's been full, I savoured much, Good friends, good times, a loved one' touch. 
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief, Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your heart and share with me, God wanted me now, He set me free.

              Janice M. Fair-Salters

 

 

 

 

 

 

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